“Why do you do it that way?” You often hear this question when you live abroad. Sometimes, this query comes spoken aloud; at other times, an internal voice merely whispers it as you navigate a new culture. And frequently, you don’t have an answer. You just… do. Because, quite simply, that’s what “normal” always meant to you. However, you will learn, on hot nights at country dachas in Ukraine, at bustling cafes in Spain, and over wine in a tiny village in France, is that normal is profoundly relative. What’s standard, commonplace, and utterly unremarkable in one place can appear completely alien, even bizarre, in another. Indeed, that, my friends,…